Being right is genneraly a very good thin. At certain moment, it is undeniably essantial to heed to whoever is right.Lately thougth i’m begging to view this<<being right>> with more caution. When being right becomes an obsesion,, it can be destructive”
Firstly, I know some people who allwaysthink they are the ultimate authorityon any topic you might care to bring out. They hae to point out how wrong you are about it. I’ve fthen wondered why they feel is necessary to do that? Why they can’t simply express theyr personal knowladge that they know the right answer witout proving that you are wrong. It can become really annoying.
Secondly I ussually interact with thease individuals by simply not responding to theyr challenges. If they have a need to be right i let them be right. Frankly i dont care so much. Over time i have learned that is difficult to convince someone like this that they should check theyr facts or re-examine theyr arguments no matter how sincere they try.
Another thing to mention, I noticed that noone wants to be around someone that allways wants to be right. When you want to prove that your stance on a certain issue is the right one, all that does is make the other persone defensive and trying to win that person already on defence is a very tought task.Being allways popular doesnt make you popular.
In conclusion,the unfurtunate thing about these people is that they drive potential friends away. Allways being right can become boring. Life needs some spice of some surpises and even ocasional mistakes.When you allow for mistakes and missteps you learn far more and streghten your relationship. And quite krankly sometimes the other person is right
